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hi everyone!

we’re very excited to let you know about these courses from Frederick Dodson author of Parallel Universes of Self ~ Frederick has some great audio downloads mp3 available for immediate download.  If nothing is real….. this is a way to access The Bliss Course and if everything is real… this is a good way to access The Reality Creation course.  Check it out and let me know what you notice and for those of you who play in the Matrix Energetics world this is an awesome way to shift parallel universes!  If you go through this site to get to the Reality Creation Site, Frederick Dodson will send me an email and I will do a free matrix energetics distance session for you as soon as I see it go through.   Just click below the Reality Creation Coaching link                     Ralph Havens ~ have fun!

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During my meditations with Matrix Energetics, QiGong, Reality Creation, I noticed something and I want to share it with you. On the one hand, it’s my success story of how I got rid of my knee pain and other leg pains that were stopping me from running much for the past half year or more. But in the bigger picture, I can see how my issue, my knee and leg issues were there for a purpose. So, I may ramble on a bit because this just came to me but I feel it may be useful for people to know what I noticed.

Things are rarely as they seem. Many times it seems that they are actually the opposite of what they appear to be. My leg issues seemed to me like a big problem. Just as I had my life and world in a place where I could run as much as I wanted and anywhere I wanted, I started having leg issues which remained despite much work on them. I did a lot of Matrix Energetics, Integrative Manual Therapy and Reality Creation techniques along with QiGong and other meditations. I knew on a bigger level this was to teach me because past injuries taught me so much about myself and how to help others, but it was getting quite annoying.

I’ll let you know how it finally shifted for me but here’s what I found out about it.

First, the leg issues and not being able to run as much as I liked was actually an opportunity to learn so that I could help and serve others and myself and God. The knee issue was there for a purpose. I used it to notice how magic I am and really to notice how magic God is. I kept looking at it as an opportunity in between the frustrating and irritating times. I know now that when the purpose of the issue was done, everything healed quickly; overnight.

What I noticed for myself was the purpose was that I was to leave behind my belief systems, my self-righteous stuff; the things I “couldn’t do without” like running. For others leaving behind their belief systems would be different but for me it had to do with running.

What I’ve noticed is that whether or not someone willfully lets go of their beliefs, self-righteous stuff or things they can’t do without, they will be let go of in this new era that we are coming into now; the choice is does the person willfully do it or is it going to be painful.

Once, we let go of these “things we can’t do without” , beliefs, self-righteous stuff we can more fully and clearly see our destiny; our heart song; what makes our heart truly sing. This was my case; I really wanted to let go of some annoying self-righteous habits and ways of being and truly serve others and God through my life, and running and work. Paulo Coelho in the Alchemist talks about following your heart song and how when you follow your destiny, your heart song, the universe conspires to help you. There is no longer the need to fight or work against someone or thing. There will still be stuff to do but not in order to get somewhere; No…..it’s more like you become the person who already has what you’re desiring first,…. and then as that person, you do stuff. The order of creating is flipped. You are the person you want to be first ….. then as that person, you do stuff.

So, I realized that by letting go and trusting that all is well, as is; that it’s perfect as it is right now I could finally drop down to that space where I already had what I desired and from there healing happened. But it was already done by the time I just let go and trusted without an agenda or goal. Noticing as an observer but without trying to change it. I actually prayed for God to please be with me through this because I had pretty much given up; which was so out of character for me. But, I had to let go and truly trust. That was my lesson; the purpose of this leg issue. To Trust that all is well and so be it; And that I can let go of stuff knowing there is a bigger picture a miracle for me.

In much the same way that we have to sometimes see our children in pain even though we’d rather not have them experience pain, I noticed that God had a bigger plan for me and it wasn’t enough for me to have a kick-back life and run; I can have that but I was to learn that I can truly let go and trust and from that place I can help people; not as needing to fix them but in helping them access the space of Grace, where God’s miracles are.

It’s cool because it also takes the pressure off me to fix someone. But, by coming from that space, the space of infinite energy, I can notice how my clients heal. I can still use my Matrix Energetics, Integrative Manual Therapy, Qigong healing, Pilates, Feldenkrais, Consciousness technologies and all the other stuff I’ve got at my ready; but, it’s no longer about me and everyone has their own story and lessons and miracles and it’s not up to me to decide what theirs should be.

Oh and by the way, the “thing” that I used to shift my running issue was singing out loud and to myself for 2 days without much interruption, “I am healthy so very very healthy” in various tones and songs. It sounds too simple but it was a tech I got from Frederick Dodson of Reality Creation; I used it with Matrix Energetics, and all this blog came to me during one meditation as it cleared. I was using Matrix Energetics with it but the big shift came when I changed my thoughts by singing that song over and over again out loud and to myself for days.

So, I want you all to know that if you go through our site www.missionhillspt.com/blog to click on The Reality Creation link and buy anything from Frederick Dodson, I will get an email from him when you do and I will do a distance matrix energetics session to access that space where healing has already occurred for you; I’ll do this once you go through our site to get to Frederick Dodson’s site Reality Creation. You don’t have to do anything to receive this matrix energetics session. Just notice for the first few days after buying his audio download what shifts even before you use his stuff and continue to notice what is different as well.

my best to you all in 2012!!!!

Ralph

Click here to visit Reality Creation Coaching.

hi everyone!

we’re very excited to let you know about these courses from Frederick Dodson author of Parallel Universes of Self ~ Frederick has some great audio downloads mp3 available for immediate download.  If nothing is real….. this is a way to access The Bliss Course and if everything is real… this is a good way to access The Reality Creation course.  Check it out and let me know what you notice and for those of you who play in the Matrix Energetics world this is an awesome way to shift parallel universes!  Ralph Havens ~ have fun!

Reality Creation Course and Bliss courses ~ audio downloads for immediate access ~ Click below for the Audio Downloads mp3 for immediate access

Click here to visit Reality Creation Coaching.

Hi Ralph

I hope all is well with you! I made it back to Kansas City safely..but the trip home was far from ordinary!  The flight is 3 hours long..so I settled into my seat..did a little reading in my Matrix manuals..and pondered how in the world I was going to incorporate it into my current practice and everyday life…eventually I decided to give up thinking about anything and launched into a fun time of playing Angry Birds on my Ipad. It was about halfway through the flight when I heard an overhead announcement from one of the flight attendants asking “Is there a doctor on board..we have a medical problem with a passenger”  Yikes!! I paused a moment but then pushed my overhead call light to let them know where I was…. They needed help with a woman who was having respiratory distress and dizzyness…Of course the doctor part of me quickly took control but on the long walk to the back of the aircraft where the lady was ..I went as well as could downward into my heart space…While I was taking her blood pressure and doing all the usual doctor stuff I was able to make a clear intention of helping her,..but it was so distracting with the crew there and 200 passengers all looking at me. Eventually I asked if we could change seats and the lady and I made our way up to the very front and sat together. I had oxygen on her and had determined she was in no immediate danger..She had been seen the night before in the ER and told she had pneumonia. She had not slept well in a week and had taken quite a lot of medication.  Some time  passed and still I was having trouble just letting that intention go.  Finally I asked her what I thought was a pretty open ended question…I said “What can I do for you”  I expected her to say something medically oriented but she looked straight at me and took her oxygen mask off and said…”I would like a better job”!!!! This caught me so off guard I burst out laughing and the intention I had mentally held left me and went right to her!  She sank back into the seat..and after a moment or so said “I feel so much better..completely normal”…WOW..She had no idea who I was and certainly nothing about Matrix…but there you are.  The flight crew had already summoned EMT who were there when we arrived but after they examined her found nothing wrong..she was allowed to get back on the plane and continue the next leg of the flight.  I had to give the aircrew my name and license number as well as a way to contact me..so the entire incident is on record!! How is that for validation!!  I did not get her whole name but I will always wonder if she got that new job she wanted!!    Email me after you read this and tell me what you think…I am so amazed this happened to me…but if I was looking for validation I would say this would qualify!!    Blessings to you…..Annie

thanks Annie for sharing this!  We’re seeing a lot of miracles coming since the last Matrix Energetics class here in Coronado, Ca.  more to come!  Ralph Havens

Ralph & Jen Havens

In this group we’ll be exploring healing and transformation using Matrix Energetics, meditation, Wisdom Healing QiGong and Parallel Universe surfing in a group setting.

We’ll be exploring non-dual awareness meditation.  We’ll also be exploring Parallel Universes and playing with parallel universe surfing, Wisdom Healing QiGong and accessing the Matrix Energetics space.

If nothing is real and everything is real….what do you want?  If you can have anything you want as long as you already have it….What do you really want?

Ralph & Jen Havens will be leading you in accessing a space where “it’s already done” and channel surfing to find the place where you already have what you “wanted”.  Sounds confusing?  That can be a good thing.

Come and play with Ralph & Jen in the world of unlimited possibilities and notice what changes; notice what’s different.  And have fun!

This week listening to Adyashanti, taking advanced Wisdom Healing QiGong with Ming Tong Gu, reading through my notes of Richard Bartlett in prep for our Study Group that Jen and I lead in Matrix Energetics and listening to Justice Barltett in an interview with Kidest Om and reading through Jaden Phoenix’s book Beyond Human, I noticed the same pattern showing up. I want to share some insights from this past week.

What I came to was this:  What would it be like if the so called “negative” and so called “positive” things were both perfect.  What would it be like to not just accept something but to actually embrace it “as is”.  And then I looked at it and noticed the space that it all occupies and even the space of “it”.  And then what would it be like to notice “from this space”.

It’s an interesting shift in awareness.  What I’ve noticed is that when I notice from the space and notice as the space and notice where it is that I embrace the whole of “it”, there is something interesting that happens.  And it’s something I can’t put into words but it’s a feeling state or an experience.  It’s something I can track in my own body and in the space of me and the space around me.

What I have noticed that I can put into words is this:  The universe starts to show me little and even big synchronicity that show me that when I drop into this space I don’t have to “do” anything anymore.  As my friend Greg says “sometimes you just have to sit and let the world come to you”.  And that shows up for me.  The right people come in and help me, give me information, do the work for me or point me in the next step.  It’s a magical way to live.

I notice that the negative and the positive are both being totally completely enjoyed by the space, me, whatever you want to call this thing that can’t be put into words….

Some thoughts in this Sunday August 14th, 2011

~~Ralph Havens, spaceman

Ralph Havens, PT, OCS, IMTC, certified matrix energetics practitioner

Molly and Josh are vegetarians and gluten free and Jen, my wife and I are gluten free but adhere more to the Weston Price ideas of nutrition. I was telling them how I’ve been eating organic grass fed beef liver the night before long runs on the Pacific Crest Trail and other trails around San Diego and that I have a boost in energy and recovery; Liver is high in glycogen which is a huge energy store and high in iron and folate.

I was reminded about what a good friend of mine Dr. David Barold, MD said once. David has studied with a lot of people with nutrition from Price-Pottinger, to Gerson, to all sorts of raw and other nutrition programs. Despite all this training he said something once that really resonated with me and that was, “if anyone tells you they know what everyone should do with their diet, run like Hell the other way!”

So this brings me back to this idea of standardization. Shouldn’t the research point us toward the best nutrition program for everyone? What predicts the best health? Shouldn’t we be able to look at the data and know once and for all what diet is best for people?

Dr. Weston Price spent decades in the 1930′s and 40′s traveling and studying the nutrition and diet and health patterns of indigenous people all over the world. He studied Kenyon people, Eskimos, north Canadian indians, Pacific Islanders, people in the Alps and they all ate different things. But they were all very healthy until westerners started coming in and they adopted the flour and sugar in the western diet. His book Nutrition and Physical Degeneration is a must read for anyone interested in what works. But the point is that they all ate different foods. There were foods they didn’t eat, namely grain and sugar, but besides that they ate very different foods. Think about how different an Eskimo eats compared to a Kenyon or a Pacific Islander.

So as Josh and Molly and Jen and I were talking Josh said something that was quite insightful. He said something along the lines of ” if you clear out your own clutter, you can access what is true to you” I thought it was brilliant. What did I take from that? Basically that if you clear your own mind and drop into your heart you can access the truth. From there you will be drawn to what is right for you. Now I think it’s great to read and research but ultimately who are you going to go to when you decide what to do for yourself? If you’re “in your mind” you have limited access. But by clearing out the clutter, being still and dropping down into your heart you can have real knowledge of what is true for you.

Let me know what you think; send me and email from our contact page on what you find that is true for you?
Ralph Havens, PT, OCS, IMTC, certified Matrix Energetics Practitioner
619.543.1470
www.missionhillpst.com

Thank you so much for the healing you did on my grandson.  I have never mentioned this to my daughter because she is so sensitive about her son, but for a time I feared he might be autistic, but I no longer feel that way now.  As an infant  he would become frustrated and would bang his head on the floor, on the door, on the wall or hit himself in the head with his fists.  It troubled me to no end to witness this.  And when he began daycare at 2 years of age and started catching the colds and fevers that a lot of kids go though when they come in close proximity with one another his fevers would spike and he’d go into seizures.  So when a friend suggested I bring him to you I welcomed the opportunity.

I realize you have only seen him once, but since you worked on him he has become a TOTALLY different child.  He is SO HAPPY…..constantly singing and laughing.  That evening when he went home from your office and his mother asked me what you had done it was very hard to explain to her so I asked her to just notice and explain to me the differences that she noticed in him.  Well that evening he picked up a piece of broccoli and began eating it as if were cotton candy.  Since then he eats spinach, green beans, celery, cabbage, constantly asks for milk.  You’ve done wonders for him.  The following day when I picked him up from school he took me around and told me the names of all three of his teachers and before we left his classroom he turned and blew them all a KISS!   This is totally different behavior for him, because before he was very quiet in school and didn’t want to speak according to his teachers.  NOW in the mornings when I leave for work he blows me a kiss and says “I love you and have a good day”.   I can’t believe the changes.

Don’t get me wrong he is by no means an angel.  We still have a few more issues I’d love for you to work with him on, but I WANT TO THANK YOU SINCERELY for the beautiful start you have given our baby boy.  There has been no more hitting himself in the head with his fists or banging his head on the floor.  He is now a gentle, loving, happy,  well-mannered…..well at least a typical 2 year old now.   Thanks again Ralph!

A Very Grateful Grandmother!

My friend and colleague Danielle Emhof, once said to me, “We don’t know why people come to us”.  I instantly knew what she meant.  Over the time we’ve been practicing Energy Healing with our clients, we’ve noticed big shifts, changes, improvements, healing, transformations on all levels and clearing and improving of all sorts of health conditions.  What we’ve also noticed is that what people come in for initially, for example a frozen painful shoulder, may fix up but along the way they could have other more magical and unexpected changes; for example in the case of the woman with the frozen shoulder; This particular client told me that she was so happy to have had her frozen shoulder because if she hadn’t she wouldn’t have come in and had all the other changes; She reported that her husband (who we hadn’t treated at that point) no longer yelled at her! Also, longstanding hand and feet numbness no longer bothered her and she had a sense of peace for the first time that she could could remember.  As Danielle said, we don’t have any idea why people show up at our door.

As we’ve been playing in the field of unlimited potential, which is what I’d basically describe Matrix Energetics to be, we’ve noticed so many things too.  One big one for us was more and more I felt a deep desire welling up in me to let go of a lot of “things”.  It was like I was ready to “lose everything”.  I felt a burning desire to follow my desires; the desires that have been with me a long time; some of them that don’t make sense if you think about it in a material world view; but that none the less stay with me; those desires.

I made a list of my desires which included how I love to work and play in the Matrix Energetics field of possibilities, how I love to help clients find their own way out of “problems” and line up more with their desires, how I love to run on trails in various parts of North America, how I love helping runners with our dvd’s, book, and private sessions, how I love to do talks and demos of our energy work, how I love to read, research, and play with quantum physics, matrix energetics, enlightenment, and running, how I love hanging out in organic coffee shops (this goes well with all of the above! sometimes I think enlightenment is all about having coffee with my friends!), how I love running with my friends and running on my own and how I love taking classes in all of the above.

Some of these desires might make sense in the material world such as working with clients or having our running dvd’s and book while others may make no sense at all such as hanging out at coffee shops, doing nothing.  But they’re my desires and as I’ve noticed, over the time I’ve been playing in this field of  unlimited possibilities, is that when I line up with my desires; when I play in that arena and stay true to my inner desires something happens.   Something that brings me back to the title of this post;  ”Satsang vs. Therapy“, and to the idea of us not knowing why someone shows up at my door for “treatment”.

What I’ve noticed is that when I view someone as having a problem, a condition or needing to be fixed, I don’t see as many transformative instantaneous changes.  I have to work at fixing their condition and helping them with their problem.  This is what I’d view the standard Therapy model to be.  It’s basically looking at everything that needs changing or fixing and then working as a team to fix it.  Sounds good but I’ve found it to be quite limiting especially when I compare it to Satsang.

My idea of Satsang is that there is nothing to “fix” when someone comes in; Now you might think that sounds cruel or making light of serious conditions people have, but what I’ve noticed is that if I let go of needing to “fix” someone or “change” someone, I can go to the place where I’ve lost “everything”; I can drop to the “No Thing” place or the infinite space.  From that place and I’ll explain that place a bit more, I can ask a simple question (and there’s many questions such as these I could ask), “what would it be like if I could notice the space, or the silence that already is?” And if I can notice the space or silence then what is it that is actually noticing?

From this place, the silence or space that already is, now I have noticed that the truth shows up; it actually never wasn’t there or here; but we (me and the client) start to notice it. From this place, the client can line up with their desires, their innermost heart desires; the desires that don’t seem to go away; the ones that don’t always “make sense”; those desires.

From this place change, transformation, healing has already happened; it never wasn’t there or here. From this place I’ve noticed that people’s pains, conditions, issues shift, change, improve, sometimes go away as if they’ve never been there.  But interestingly enough, what the client has “come in to fix” can seem less important.  Yes, it’s still nice that they don’t notice it or have it anymore, but something more important has shown up; something that never wasn’t there all along. This space or silence, that is at the same time magical and at the same time familiar; like going home.

So with our “work” I feel we’re offering Satsang which is defined as “listening, talking about, and assimilating the truth” and what I’ve noticed is that when I pay attention to my desires and notice that space or silence that is always here, clients’ conditions improve; many times quickly and beyond usual predictors of outcome but also, they notice something that seems to show up for them that is more valuable; something they’ve been looking for, for a long time; and as it turns out it feels more like what they’ve been searching for than other “things” they’ve wanted.  In short they can start lining up with their deepest desires.

Ralph Havens

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