What do Happy People do compared to unhappy people ~ are you tending to irritate a lot of negative and “realistic” people.

When someone asks me what I want for my child, BenJamin I don’t tend to give the answer most people give.  I find the things like a good career, a successful life in the usual ways people think of success in terms of money, status, job, family are not necessarily what I want for my son.  While it will be cool to see what direction he takes in life, my main thing is, I would love to see him happy.  Very simply I am pleased when I see him happy.  What ever course his life may take, that is my wish for him.

I ran across this post about what happy people do differently compared to unhappy people.  All of it rings true to me.  I’ve found when I do an exercise Frederick Dodson calls The Dive, I find that what I really want is happiness.  There may be layers beyond that but that’s a pretty big one.  Fred has some great ways to clear out the clutter to access bliss and then to create realities and play with the infinite. You can access his site here

Here’s the post that got me writing today.

http://www.purposefairy.com/4899/15-powerful-things-happy-people-do-differently/

If you have matrix energetics in what you are, then I would recommend dropping into the matrix energetics state and accessing the points they talk about in this article.  And if you don’t have matrix energetics in your awareness yet, let me know and I can point you in ways to get that.  We do sessions that drop you into the matrix energetics state which is a great way to experience the state and transformation and taking a class from Richard Bartlett, DC, ND is an awesome way to learn it.

And here’s Fred’s site:

Reality Creation Course and Bliss courses ~ audio downloads for immediate access ~ Click below for the Audio Downloads mp3 for immediate access
Click here to visit Reality Creation Coaching.
Reality Creation Course and Bliss courses ~ audio downloads for immediate access ~ Click below for the Audio Downloads mp3 for immediate access
Click here to visit Reality Creation Coaching.
Reality Creation Course and Bliss courses ~ audio downloads for immediate access ~ Click below for the Audio Downloads mp3 for immediate accessClick here to visit Reality Creation Coaching.Reality Creation Course and Bliss courses ~ audio downloads for immediate access ~ Click below for the Audio Downloads mp3 for immediate accessClick here to visit Reality Creation Coaching.

http://www.purposefairy.com/4899/15-powerful-things-happy-people-do-differently/

Ralph Havens,

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Fractals: Seeing the Patterns in our Existence by Kimberly Burnham, PhD

My friend and long-time mentor Kimberly Burnham, PhD has taught me many things.  She was one of the main teachers of Integrative Manual Therapy for CenterIMT and I took well over 100 post-graduate courses in Integrative Manual Therapy over the years.  Kim told me about Matrix Energetics and since taking that 3 years ago, we’ve seen more miracles for myself, my family and our clients than in the previous 24 years as a physical therapist.  Kim worked in my clinic here in San Diego for about 3 years working for 2 weeks at a time each 3 months.  She lived with us and worked with us and the growth during that phase was also amazing.

Over the past few years, Kim has been writing and now has quite a few books available.  I’m currently reading one of her chapters in a book by Jack Canfield; you know the guy who wrote Chicken Soup for the Soul; and her chapter in his latest book, Pearls of Wisdom is a great way to begin to think about possibilities.  In this chapter Kim talks about Fractals.  If you’ve never heard of fractals, it’s mind blowing when you start to look.

It’s a great description of how everything is infinite and connected; not on some meta-physical, whoo, whoo thing but in a real and physical and beyond level. Kim has a great way of bringing science and math into the real world and branching off to show how it’s all connected and how we’re part of that connection.   I’m enjoying the other stories of inspiration and thought provoking perspectives in Pearls of Wisdom as well.  I recommend it and Kimberly Burnham’s chapter Fractals:  Seeing the Patterns in our Existence is a great way to start.

Ralph Havens, matrix energetics practitioner

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Reality and the Space Time Continuum ~~~ Chomping on a new Reality

My boys were snuggled in for bed.  I snuck out to clean up the kitchen… a job Ralph usually does for us while I care for our little dude (yes, I’m a very spoiled mommy!).  My duties were done, and I craved a little treat.  Hmmm, what was wild and crazy and awaiting me in our fridge??? Raw organic almond butter… and a dab of organic maple syrup!!!! MMMM! I made a few more dirty spoons to clean.

As I contemplated my dab of syrup, part of me wondered if I’d be eating any form of sugar at all in five years.  And part of me thought, wow, I don’t usually think about this, but probably, to most people, maple syrup is not very extreme on the “junk food” list.  And I thought, you know, most Americans would probably wonder how we have the will power to resist the Reese peanut butter cups, Rollos, and Doritos I used to so love.  And then I thought, that’s just it… it’s not that we have some incredible will power, it’s that we’ve completely shifted realities… I don’t even LIVE in a reality where those things exist anymore.  It didn’t happen overnight, but it might as well have. I don’t look at a gas station and think “food.”  I don’t even see most grocery stores as a place to buy food, and even the ones we DO use, we skirt the outside edge for 98% of our food (aka fresh produce and meats… rarely do we buy something in a package or bottle).  Candy, junk food, even processed food is just not even on our radar.  It’s not that I’m constantly seeing it and resisting it, it’s that in my present world, it doesn’t even EXIST.
Part of it is making changes as we learn new things… going that extra step to learn something new, find alternatives, seek out good new sources, etc. But even more than that, is the flow of useful information that comes so easily into our lives.  When I look back, it’s happened all throughout my life.  However, the more I live, the more I listen… and the more I receive.  Part of this is simply learning from experience, but the exponential part we’ve experienced the last few years we attribute to Matrix Energetics.  Information flows to us very effortlessly, and our job is to NOTICE.  The rest seems to fall into place, and before we know it, a new reality surrounds us.  Sometimes it’s intense and a bit jarring of a shift, but most often it’s so fluid that I have to stop and reflect back a few years to really see how drastically things have changed.
This takes me to a recent fascination I’ve had with time and reality travel.  Even more exciting to me than traveling forward or backward in time is the idea of experiencing various realities within the same “time-space.”  Think of how you can live in the same block as five other people in various stages of their lives.  They are all experiencing completely different realities in the same time-space.  Or when you are strolling around on holiday and catch a glimpse of someone bustling off to work… your experience of that day and space in the city is slowed and detailed compared with their likely fast and assumptive experience of it.  And then apply this to yourself.  How can a single thought or attitude shift your experience of your day, where you live, the people you interact with, the places you go on a regular basis?  How powerful is it that you can shift your reality and then one day look back and say, wow, I am living in a completely different world than I was a few years ago?!  Pretty fun stuff :)
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Blending, protection, and oneness or non-dual awareness

I have a friend, Peggy who is a matrix energetics practitioner and has taken classes from Hector Garcia, DC who has worked on me with her skills recently.  She found some interesting stuff and it brought up this blog post.  She told me “now I know you’re not into looking at the dark side or even considering that there is a dark side….. but I saw 3 hooks attached to your diaphragm area and when I took them out later I looked and they were back.  They’re out now but I think you should place a white light around you as protection.  It seems it is some of your clients energy trying to attach to you in an attempt to feel better or heal”

Peggy knows I consider we’re all one and there is no such thing as blending with others in a negative way but I realize that I do notice what she is talking about.  In fact over the past few days before her session with me, I was noticing feeling exhausted and a definite pain in my diaphragm and adrenal areas.  Once she worked on me I no longer felt that and felt much lighter.

and then it hit me, yes we are one and no one can truly hurt me, but we are also in a dualistic world at the same time.  I wouldn’t let anyone and everyone come and live in my house or take care of my child.  There are levels of how much access someone has me and my house and my family.  My, my, my! it doesn’t look like I totally buy the oneness and all is one thing!  While I do believe we’re all one, I also think boundaries are there for a purpose and it’s a co-dependancy thing.  Boundaries are good, helpful and I can’t truly help others if If I just let everyone have full access to all of me and my house.

So, I think, boundaries are useful and protecting oneself is a thing to consider but as a way to help others and ourselves.  Consider using a white bubble around you and some dolphin energy for fun; that’s what I do and other things I’ve learned from Matrix Energetics.  But I make it my rule set that it’s done and then let it go.  That’s how I do it now to check in on the white bubble, and some other ways I protect my self to have boundaries but then I let it go and play.  If I continued to think about needing to protect myself or worried about it, then I’m in a duality with the issue and then it can hurt me.  But if I just play with it, set up my boundaries and then let go and play, I can keep my “house” for myself and reach out and help others from there.

Some ideas about blending, protection, duality, non-dual awareness and rituals to protect oneself.

Ralph Havens, PT, OCS, IMTC, certified matrix energetics practitoner

www.missionhillspt.com

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Reality Creation newsletter by Fred Dodson

Reality Creation Newsletter by Fred Dodson is available through our website. Fred gives high quality reality creation tech and meditations on audio programs.  It’s by far the fastest way to create your desired reality I’ve found especially when used with Matrix Energetics.

For Any audio program you order through our site, I do a free Matrix Energetics Distance Session for you.  You don’t have to do anything special to receive it.  Once I get the email from Fred Dodson that you bought one of his programs, I will do the matrix energetics session for you.  If you like you can let me know you bought it with any special requests or desires or things you’d like to change in your reality and I will include that in the matrix energetics distance session and let you know when I have gone to Done with the session.  It’s a great way to super-charge your reality creation.  ralph@missionhillspt.com

here’s the link to Frederick Dodson’s Reality Creation site

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Click here to visit Reality Creation Coaching.
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How Integrative Manual Therapy saved my life by Ralph Havens

Looking back on this, I almost didn’t notice it.  There was a miracle that happened to me and I feel fortunate but as it was happening and as it happened, I nearly missed it.  I had something big shift in me, but I didn’t notice it for years I think because I just felt normal.  The deal was though that I hadn’t felt “normal” for most of my life;  As I shifted and did feel “normal” I just felt that was me and almost forgot about all that had changed.

I find this true with a lot of our clients.  Many times they will come in with specific things they want to go away, or heal or change.  The funny thing is that many times it does change right before our eyes in a session; yet the client won’t notice it.  They’ll even say things like “I don’t notice anything different”.  Amazing how someone can have what they wanted and then not notice it!

I think it may be because they just feel normal; like themselves.  The actually can forget rather quickly how it used to be; even if it’s only an hour earlier!  In fact this is what happened to me and it wasn’t till years later that I realized what had changed and how significant it was.

My Story of How Integrative Manual Therapy saved my life:

So, for years since even in junior high and probably before, I always had cavities in my teeth.  I was always going to the dentist and having to have work done on my teeth.  So much so that I even had a root canal surgery as a junior high kid.  When I was in college I had a lot of dental issues and even had to have a molar pulled and later as a 20 something, I had to have the next one pulled.  It was awful.  I was going to the dentist every 6 months and I asked him why I had so many problems; his response was “some people just have soft teeth”.  I was always paying off a big dental bill with him.  Disturbing because you know how the teeth are a window into someone’s overall health; and here I was in my 20′s with bad teeth.

Then in February, 2000, I met Sharon Giammatteo, PT, PhD and took her class in Integrative Manual Therapy (IMT) on men’s and women’s health issues.  I’m a runner and after the 3  day class I noticed I was running much better; looser, stronger and happier!  So I started taking classes from Sharon and the IMT team of therapists.  In fact I took over 110 classes over the next 10 years traveling from San Diego to Toronto, to Connecticut to New Mexico, to Seattle to all sorts of places in between.  I was feeling better and better myself and my clients were improving beyond anything I had seen prior.  There were classes to treat the LIver, and gastro-intestinal tract and brain, and heart and emotional and other stuff.  It was a blast to learn and fun to see people changing and improving many times miracles.  Along the way I changed my diet and gave up gluten, greatly decreased processed food and sugar and did a lot of the IMT therapy on myself.

It was somewhere around 2005 or later that I noticed I didn’t have a dental bill to pay off and hadn’t had a dental bill in a long time; I also hadn’t had any dental work done except for the teeth cleaning visits.  I was healthier and it was showing up in my teeth.  And the funny thing was I hadn’t even realized it.  I saw my old passport photo and compared it to my new one; I was way healthier!  How could I have not noticed?  I think maybe because I just felt normal; more like me.  It didn’t feel unusual!

So then I found the work of Dr Weston Price who studied indigenous people from all over the world in the 1930′s and found that when western food was introduced the people’s teeth suffered greatly and their health deteriorated and if they were put back on the native foods their health returned; if they ate the western food all sorts of mental and physical conditions occurred.  The one thing they didn’t eat on their native diets was grain and the other thing was sugar.

So, one time while having my teeth cleaned I showed my dentist Weston Price’s groundbreaking study and book.  Weston Price was a dentist.  I expected my dentist to ask me questions, to borrow the book and to see how he could help his patients regain their dental health.  He instead gave me a condescending look, patted me on the shoulder and smiled and said, “keep doing what you’re doing Ralph; I’m sure you’ll live a long life”.  He didn’t want to know how I did it or how he could help his clients with this information.

I’m not sure why a medical professional would not want to learn more when they see their client no longer suffering from a condition.   But I’ve seen it since then with some doctors when they see big changes with clients.  Every time I see it, it still amazes me but the important thing is that I have the information for myself, my family and our clients.

I feel fortunate to have found Sharon Giammatteo, PT, PhD and Integrative Manual Therapy and know that she has helped me and my family. We have seen our family’s health improve and serious medical conditions resolve since starting IMT and eating a gluten free and processed diet free diet.  I know this has not only added years to our lives but made our present time more health and vibrant.

thank you to Sharon and the IMT team.

Ralph Havens, PT, OCS, IMTC, certified matrix energetics practitioner

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What I’ve noticed with our Skype Health Coaching, Life Coaching, Matrix Energetics and Distance Healing Sessions.

As Jen and I have noticed over the years of doing Matrix Energetics and helping people overcome physical, medical health issues and transform their lives in ways that continue to inspire and amaze us we have noticed some interesting things.

One that became apparent rather quickly was that when we accessed the Matrix Energetics state and saw our clients change and issues fix up, other people in their lives also changed and improved.  Many times when a client is here in the clinic with us and brings their friend or significant other, the other person also heals or changes or notices that they feel better.  We usually don’t tell them ahead of time to notice because we’re working with our client.  So for a spouse or friend of the client to speak up and let us know they feel better is a cool byproduct of us working with the client!

Jen and I also have done many demos of Matrix Energetics over the years for groups. We’ve been with doctors, their patient groups, various educational and civic groups, physical therapists, massage therapist groups and others.  And what we noticed is that when we work on someone in one of these groups, the people in the group have changes. This is reproducible and consistent so now when we do group demos we ask the audience to test something, like a pain or issue so that when the demo is Done, we can ask them again to re-check it.  Many people if not most people notice improvements.

We also have pre-physical therapy students who visit our clinic as part of their pre-physical therapy training and requirements and they also notice improvements once they are with us.  It’s really quite fun to watch them checking their own neck or hips or back ranges of motion or walking and starting to laugh at how they feel different; feel better.

One thing I’ve noticed is that we now, along with our in-clinic practice, have a growing Skype practice, where clients will schedule a time for us to meet over Skype.  We’ve communicated with people from all over the world but mostly from here in the U.S. so far.  What I’ve noticed is that by taking the physical person a bit away from me such as over the phone or Skype, I am left to notice the pattern more as it seems to be; an energetics phenomenon.  And as an energetic thing, it can shift quickly; even quicker sometimes than in person.

How can that be?  I’ve seen it to be true to me, over and over again and Jen has noticed it as well.  We’ve been taught by Richard Bartlett, Melissa Joy Jonsson, and Justice Bartlett how to do this in the Matrix Energetics Classes over the years.  So we see it, we know it to be true to us but how does it do that?

While no one ultimately knows; actually what do we know absolutely to be true?  We don’t even know where we are.  When you look where you are it’s always in relation to something else.  Like, I’m here on Earth.  But where is Earth?  It’s in the Milky Way so I’m in the Milky Way. But where is the Milky Way?  Here’s a cool video to just start us thinking http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tuH3f2FtlQM When they talk about the various galaxies I get a sense of what else is out there and more important here is “so where am I really?”  If I don’t know even where I am what do I really know?  For me this is a useful place to play with Matrix Energetics.

But back again to how do people get better, change, transform, heal even if they are just in the same room or even if they are many miles away and I’m just Skyping with them?  Some of the physics of it is in Torsion Physics or Subtle Energy Physics.  From my understanding of these ideas, it’s the electrons of our body that are in a spin which releases photons or bio-photons since it’s from us and this spin is a torsion field that is the same as subtle energy or dark matter and is responsible for possibly how healing or transformation can happen at a distance.  These are ideas I learned from Matrix Energetics Seminars with Richard Bartlett. It’s all cool stuff but what interests me is how it can produce tangible changes, improvements, healing in people and even in people connected to them either in a group or in a family or who knows how they’re all connected!!!

So I want to share a Success Story from one of my clients who had one Skype session with me.  She wanted to fix up a lower back issue which she felt was a sacro-iliac joint issue (SI Joint).  There were other things she wanted to change but this was her most pressing issue when we did the Skype session.  Here’s her email to me a week or so after our session.  As you read it see how my client and her Dad and their connection may have shifted and if this can shift what else may shift in the days and weeks and even years to come?

If you’d like to have more info about skype sessions you can visit our website or email me directly at ralph@missionhillspt.com

and for more success stories visit the blog or our testimonials page

here’s the email from my client:

Hi,

I have included a testimonial if you would like to use it. I really enjoyed our session. Since then, something interesting has happened. The SI joint pain I was having finally went away yesterday. I had associated it w/ my dad and have been doing a lot of Faster EFT (tapping) around the issue but it wasn’t changing. As soon as my dad called me, the pain disappeared.

Here is another part of her email to me:

“Ralph was very connected to my energy field, even though this was a Skype session. He was excellent at tracking certain things that were happening for me in my life. My heart space felt quite expanded and I physically felt much lighter. Having a Matrix Energetics session using Skype was fantastic because Ralph was actually able to guide me through some areas of pain and explain some exercises to me that could help with the pain. His ability to blend all his knowledge about the body with the field of Matrix Energetics will only help him assist clients even more. He has so much enthusiasm and passion for his work that I couldn’t help but feel it during our session. I would highly recommend stepping into the field of possibilities with Ralph and see what can transform!” ~ Brittany E.

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Reality Creation with Frederick Dodson author and coach

Reality Creation Course and Bliss courses ~ audio downloads for immediate access ~ Click below for the Audio Downloads mp3 for immediate access

Click here to visit Reality Creation Coaching.

hi everyone!

we’re very excited to let you know about these courses from Frederick Dodson author of Parallel Universes of Self ~ Frederick has some great audio downloads mp3 available for immediate download.  If nothing is real….. this is a way to access The Bliss Course and if everything is real… this is a good way to access The Reality Creation course.  Check it out and let me know what you notice and for those of you who play in the Matrix Energetics world this is an awesome way to shift parallel universes!  If you go through this site to get to the Reality Creation Site, Frederick Dodson will send me an email and I will do a free matrix energetics distance session for you as soon as I see it go through.   Just click below the Reality Creation Coaching link                     Ralph Havens ~ have fun!

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What is Matrix Energetics ~ Ralph Havens Mission Hills Alternative Physical Therapy

I have some ways I describe matrix energetics here http://missionhillspt.com/matrix-energetics/
but when we do demos of matrix energetics or tell people about it, each time is different in the way I explain it and if I can demo it, it seems to help people “get it” more.
One way I’ve started thinking about it is :

say we lived in a place where we no longer could see the sun. there was just an artificial light that was slowly turned on at 6am and slowly turned off at 6 pm. But us “old timers” remembered what the sunrise was like or the sunset. So one day a young kid kept asking us what it was like and we talked about it, we told them some of the science about it and we tried to convey what it felt like to watch a sunrise. And as much as we tried to explain it we could tell it wasn’t getting quite through to the kid.

So one day we planned it out and snuck out of the enclosure and waited with the kid in the early morning darkness and as the sky brightened and then the sun peaked up over the horizon, we both knew that there was nothing to say. But it was magical.

So when someone wants to know about matrix energetics I try to demo it for them so they experience it. And what ever they say about it, at that point, we both know that it is really not that. it’s something much different. Even asking the question what is matrix energetics, may be the wrong question.

If you want a demo, please let us know as we have many ways to experience Matrix Energetics with us.  you can also sign up for our newsletter at the top of the page and I do a Matrix Energetics Session each Thursday at 2 pm pacific time for everyone on our newsletter list.  If you sit quietly at 2 pm pacific time on Thursday, notice what you notice that is different and let me know if you like at ralph@missionhillspt.com

We also do group demos for all sorts of groups.  If you have a group that would like to experience it please let us know and Jen and I can set that up for you.

Ralph Havens
matrix energetics certified practitioner

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Running

There are a lot of former runners that I know.  Some that I’ve met in daily life and others I’ve met as clients of mine.  Many people have told me “oh, I used to run, but…”   and the “but” usually has to do with an injury or injuries that kept someone unable to run.  Many times it was an injury that came up over and over again each time they tried to run.  So they gave up.  I like to ask them if they would like to run again.  Many times they don’t really believe they can return to running.  And again, it’s due to having had injuries in the past that kept them from running over and over again.

Now, it’s not up to me to make someone run again of course or to even help them get their desire to run back.  But I feel if someone is able to get healthy enough so that they could run, then that is a good thing.  Whether or not they even try to run again is not important to me but if they do want to return to running, it is great when they are healthy enough to do just that.  Many people have given up thinking it is possible due to getting hit with the same injuries each time they tried in the past.  But, I’ve found that by finding and helping the client fix up the things they are protecting, the body heals; I’ve seen it over and over again.  And when it heals, even returning to running is possible.

I’ve had runners return to running, once they were told to give it up and that it was no longer possible.  I’m including a letter from a client who sent me a letter many years ago of his experience; I’ve had others as well. So if you are a runner with injuries or a “former runner” who has given up but still has a glimmer of hope; or at least would like to see how healthy you can become and leave open the possibility of a return to running, check out the heart of running link and watch our videos on youtube.

I love to run and running is a great part of my life.  As a healthy person, I feel we should be able to run if we want to run.  Let me know how your running is going and what you’d like; your heart’s desires.

my best to you,

Ralph

Runners success stories and others

Success Stories running and others

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